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Splinters

Another Kind of Love Story

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From the New York Times bestselling author of The Recovering and The Empathy Exams comes the riveting story of rebuilding a life after the end of a marriage—an exploration of motherhood, art, and new love.

Leslie Jamison has become one of our most beloved contemporary voices, a scribe of the real, the true, the complex. She has been compared to Joan Didion and Susan Sontag, acclaimed for her powerful thinking, deep feeling, and electric prose. But while Jamison has never shied away from challenging material—scouring her own psyche and digging into our most unanswerable questions across four books—Splinters enters a new realm.

In her first memoir, Jamison turns her unrivaled powers of perception on some of the most intimate relationships of her life: her consuming love for her young daughter, a ruptured marriage once swollen with hope, and the shaping legacy of her own parents' complicated bond. In examining what it means for a woman to be many things at once—a mother, an artist, a teacher, a lover—Jamison places the magical and the mundane side by side in surprising ways: pumping breastmilk in a shared university office, driving the open highway in the throes of new love, growing a tender second skin of consciousness as she watches her daughter come alive to the world. The result is a work of nonfiction like no other, an almost impossibly deep reckoning with the muchness of life and art, and a book that grieves the departure of one love even as it celebrates the arrival of another.

How do we move forward into joy when we are haunted by loss? How do we claim hope alongside the harm we've caused? A memoir for which the very term tour de force seems to have been coined, Splinters plumbs these and other pressing questions with writing that is revelatory to the last page. Jamison has delivered a book with the linguistic daring and emotional acuity that made The Empathy Exams and The Recovering instant classics, even as she reaches new depths of understanding, piercing the reader to the core. A master of nonfiction, she evinces once again her ability to "stitch together the intellectual and the emotional with the finesse of a crackerjack surgeon" (NPR).
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    • Library Journal

      September 1, 2023

      Jamison's deeply personal work includes the New York Times best-selling memoir The Recovering; the PEN/Diamonstein-Spielvogel finalist Make It Scream, Make It Burn: Essays, and the novel The Gin Closet, a Los Angeles Times Book Prize finalist. Here she explores remaking her life after the end of her marriage and drawing closer to her daughter and her work while finding new love. With a 60,000-copy first printing. Prepub Alert.

      Copyright 2023 Library Journal

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    • Kirkus

      November 15, 2023
      The essayist and novelist makes motherhood central to a memoir about love, guilt, and grief. Jamison and her husband had been in couples' therapy for three years by the time their daughter was born--an event that intensified their marital problems. When the author's mother came to help her in the first weeks, her husband felt shut out, and as Jamison exulted in motherhood, he became increasingly bitter and resentful. "Did honoring my vows mean figuring out how to make a daily home with C's anger?" Jamison asked herself. Motherhood changed her perceptions. "Those first months," she writes, "made the everyday visible again." At times overwhelmed by the "sudden and exhausting plenitude" of mothering, Jamison was enchanted by her daughter's body, her needs, and her marvelous discovery of the world. Once she and her husband separated, though, she confronted the burden of single parenting, "the overwhelm of managing her presence without help," and the ongoing pressure of juggling child care, writing, and teaching. Much of the memoir focuses on Jamison's ambivalence about divorce. Finally, she realizes that grief about her divorce "did not have to wear the clothes of guilt." She reflects on her own childhood as the daughter of divorced parents, someone who rarely saw the father she wanted desperately to please; her relationship with her ever-patient, ever-helpful mother; her anorexia and alcoholism; and the men she dated once her daughter began spending two nights a week with C. The "wild vacillations of melodrama" of those affairs revealed her repetitive pattern of "turning men into assignments. Make him faithful. Make him fall in love with you." A lesson she keeps learning, she admits, is the "difference between the story of love and the texture of living it, the story of motherhood and the texture of living it." Candid, intimate recollections on motherhood and commitment.

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    • Library Journal

      December 15, 2023

      Jamison (The Recovering) takes readers on a candid, insightful, whirlwind journey as she gives birth to her daughter and concurrently ends her marriage. Along the way, she visits and revisits what it means to be a family, art (and the making of it), the ups and downs of love and approval-seeking, and the dilemmas, joys, and challenges of single motherhood. Loosely organized, the book has sections with one-word titles such as "Smoke," in which she describes the finality of her divorce and also sublets a firehouse; and "Fever," which starts at the beginning of the pandemic. There's certainly humor in this book as well. Preceding each section is a fascinating and hilarious list of all she has been googling. VERDICT A literary memoir filled with humor, which alone is worth reading the book. This title offers insight and a look into the messy, magical drudgery of life, along with the beauty of art, love, and sex that often carry people through.--Amy Cheney

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    • Booklist

      January 1, 2024
      Jamison (Make It Scream, Make It Burn, 2019) is a ravenous observer and a writer of razor-sharp precision and pinwheeling creativity. She can also be obsessively confessional. In her latest memoir, she rakes the coals of her divorce from a fellow writer soon after she gave birth to their daughter and chronicles the struggles, fears, and joys of single motherhood. As a nursing and working mother, Jamison recounts incidents ludicrous and infuriating that encapsulate how we seem to deliberately make things difficult for parents. In analyzing what went wrong in her marriage, she revisits her childhood, her parents' divorce, her father's disinterest, and her closeness to her mother. She reports on couples therapy, friendships, taking her baby daughter on book tours, museum visits, love affairs with built-in obsolescence, and her difficult COVID-19 lockdown. Jamison's delight in her baby is warming, her advice to her writing students enlightening, her consummately crafted and original descriptions and insights arresting and illuminating, but her circular ruminations can be fatiguing. A necessary work for Jamison and her readers; hopefully she'll widen her scope in the next.

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      Starred review from February 12, 2024
      Bestseller Jamison (The Empathy Exams) chronicles in this exquisite memoir the dramatic shift her life took following the birth of her daughter and the end of her marriage. After giving birth three weeks before her due date in an emergency C-section, Jamison felt overwhelmingly grateful her daughter survived, even as she struggled with difficulties breastfeeding and other challenges of caring for a newborn. Then the real pain started: just over a year after her daughter was born, Jamison’s marriage to her husband, “C,” disintegrated as his anger grew more intense, and she began divorce proceedings. Two post-divorce boyfriends—“the tumbleweed” and “the ex-philosopher”—entered the picture, then exited. Throughout, Jamison is brutally honest about the obstacles to balancing creative fulfillment, parenting, dating, and sobriety, utilizing her beguiling command of language to spotlight feelings often obscured in other accounts of motherhood (“Sometimes motherhood tricked me into feeling virtuous because I was always taking care of someone. But it didn’t make me virtuous at all. It made me feral and ruthless”). Her soul-searching is sure to inspire readers seeking to find the sweet spot between living for their children and living for themselves. By turns funny, poignant, harrowing, and joyful, this standout personal history isn’t easily forgotten. Agent: Jin Auh, Wylie Agency.

    • AudioFile Magazine
      Essayist and novelist Leslie Jamison chooses the tone and pacing of her narration as carefully as she selects the details of her powerful writing. These qualities, along with her candidness, invite listeners deep into her memories, which include the flower-filled hospital room where she stayed after delivering her daughter and desperate Internet searches for relief from her infant's continual crying. Descriptions are sometimes visceral, but Jamison blends them with wit, humor, and lyrical imagery that allow a bit of distance. Jamison's transitions can be fast but are always discernible and intriguing whether she's speaking of growing up, motherhood, divorce, dating, book tours, or single parenting during the pandemic. Her loneliness, guilt, and grief are mitigated by the insights and self-compassion she finds by the audio's end. S.W. © AudioFile 2024, Portland, Maine

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